We Nepalese have very much fatalistic attitudes and behaviours thus without rationalizing it we blindly worship, pray and expect good things happening in our lives just by praying and worshipping to 33 corer gods and goddesses because our mind has been shaped in such a way from a very early childhood socialisation process starting from home to schools and society due to too much influence and imposition of religion "Law of Manu" in our legal code of conducts developed in 14th century Manab Nyaya Sasthra and revised and codified in 1854 AD and given a titled "Muluki Ain". Besides, we always love to blame others if things don't happen as per our wish. I hate such attitude though am also not exceptional since I'm also grown up in the same environment but I try to avoid as best as I can learning and searching the truth whether or not am I right, which is not easy neither it is impossible. I'm a truth seekers, futurist and realistic optimistic pragmatic person to be identified.
“I can accept failure, but I can't accept not trying.”
-Michael Jordan, an American former professional basketball player, entrepreneur, and majority owner and chairman of the Charlotte Bobcats
Since I'm not a fatalistic attitude and believer person thus I believe in an action and trying to do something rather than just wishing, praying and expecting others to do things for me or our society. I don't take any attempting as a failure instead I take it as a lesson so that I don't make similar mistake in my next attempt
Personally if you are thinking that I'm alone and I don't have money so I can't do anything but I bet you. You can do something which is in your own control i.e. thoughts and changing your own attitude that can lead you to your altitude that you aim for.
Attitude is a little thing that makes a big difference.
- Winston Churchill
Weakness of attitude becomes weakness of character.
- Albert Einstein
Your attitude, not your aptitude, will determine your altitude.
- Zig Ziglar
The greatest discovery of my generation is that human beings can alter their lives by altering their attitudes of mind.
- Dr. William James (1842-1910), an American philosopher, psychologist and a physician.
BUT Don't know HOW thoughts and attitude can be changed!! No worries !! Do this (below) if you can or wish to alter your thoughts and attitude to reach to your altitude.
Every morning reading great people's statements and quotations is a good way of starting the day with full of positive energy and thoughts. Let's Keep it up this trend among us if we want to see good things happening in our live giving up all the bad ones that we have experienced in the past. We don't need to reinvent the wheels. All wheels have been reinvented by the world great people and if we follow their path adjusting in our lives as per our wish and desire then we can succeed in our lives easily.
Want to be a winner or loser it is our choice. It is not by chance but by choice whether or not you agree with me. It is your choice since our head, heart and hands are ours not others so we can use as per our wish. No one can control these things. Blaming and pointing out to others is just an excuse to escape from the reality.